Thursday, June 19, 2008
I’ll Start from the Beginning…

What a month it’s been! And six whole weeks since my last blog post, I should be ashamed. Luckily I have seen or spoken with many of you faithful readers during that time, so a lot of you already have some idea of what I’ve been up to. I just wanted to drop in and say hello for those of you who I have not been in contact with recently, and also to post some pictures!

Five weekends ago, my darling parents decided to drop into the lovely state of California for an extended weekend and to say hello, which they did, and more! We gallivanted all over the Bay Area, spending Saturday checking out my digs in Sunnyvale and then having a fabulous afternoon hanging around Union Square in San Francisco. We checked into the prestigious Westin St. Francis Hotel on Union Square, which my parents are big fans of, and got comfortable in our 28th floor room with a lovely view of the northern neighborhoods and the bay, along with the fog-enshrouded Golden Gate Bridge. We had amazing sushi for dinner at Umi in Potrero Hill and then enjoyed a nice quiet evening in the hotel.

The next morning we wandered down Market Street to catch views of the famous once-a-year San Francisco Bay To Breakers footrace and the ensuing drunkfest/parade extravanganza which follows along the same route. This is really an event which should be experienced firsthand if one is truly to grasp how crazy the whole party really is. My parents and I stood at Market and Ninth and watched for over half an hour while mostly drunken revelers marched by, clad in all manner of costume and for that matter, lack thereof, and pushing everything from children in baby strollers to shopping carts loaded with beer kegs down the street. Spirits were high among all, including law enforcement, which supervised the peaceful affair from a safe distance. Open container and indecent exposure laws, which by and large tend to be pretty liberal around San Francisco already, were basically nonexistent around the area of the parade, which made for a few moments of minor shock and surprise for my parents and great entertainment for me. I posted a bunch of photos below for your enjoyment!

We wandered back over to SOMA and had a pretty delicious Dim Sum brunch near the Moscone Center, and then headed back to the hotel to get our belongings. We took the Bay Bridge over to the East Bay, where we have some relatives in Concord with a very cute newborn baby and a very big dog, one of the ones with a huge tail that knocks stuff over and swats you in the calves. After we visited them, we headed north towards Napa valley, into new territory for me and my parents alike. I studied my California maps and munched on kettle corn in the comfy backseat of my parents’ rental car as we drove.

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link to the photos which accompany this blog

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We settled into our cozy bed and breakfast in Napa in the late afternoon. I was in awe of how perfect the weather was, basking in the perfectly temperate breeze and golden sunlight as we wandered around the quiet downtown area. I was expecting things to be a little busier, but we had arrived on a Sunday afternoon when most of the traffic appeared to be heading back towards more populous regions to our south. I am not much for crowds anyway, so I was not terribly disappointed. We dined at a homey Italian place and sipped on perhaps a bit too much of a nice California red. That evening as I lay awake, I experienced my first California earthquake, which was pretty minor but recognizable nevertheless. I fell asleep surprisingly early and slept like a baby, waking on my own around 8.

After a leisurely breakfast, we headed to Del Dotto Vineyards and received a guided tour of their barrel cellar, which is a pretty sweet tunnel dug deep into the ground with dirt walls. The tour wouldn’t have been complete without a few glasses of well oaked reds, of course. One such wine smelled and tasted shockingly close to bacon, to the point where I had to question its kosher credibility! My parents bought a few nice bottles and we headed up to valley for lunch and a few more sips of Napa Valley wine at the well known V. Sattui winery. Satisfied with our productive tour through the famous region, we headed down to the North Bay and wandered around the famous Muir Woods Monument, the site of a big cluster of redwood trees made easily accessible by some very well crafted paths and boardwalks through the woods. We strolled among the gargantuan and unbelievably ancient trees, breathing their fresh smell and appreciating the serenity that is found deep in the forest.

After we had had our fill of walking, we hopped back in the car and cruised across the Golden Gate Bridge, through the west side of San Francisco, and back to Silicon Valley. My parents, Dan, and I had dinner at Garden Fresh, the tasty vegetarian Chinese restaurant in Mountain View which I’ve mentioned in this blog in the past.

My parents stuck around for another day, falling in love with Carmel and the Monterey Peninsula while I went back to work. They left to go check out their place in Montana on Wednesday morning, and I flew out on the red-eye to Rochester on Wednesday evening.

My reason for traveling to New York was to surprise the majority of my graduating friends by being around for their final days as undergrads at RIT. My plan went pretty well, with one particular friend of mine actually trying to crash through a locked door while screaming at the top of her lungs just to hug me. I was surprised and touched nevertheless!

I had a leisurely two days in Rochester, enjoying the sight of my school in spring, which is really my favorite time to be there during the year. I was able to attend the academic convocation, which I found to be surprisingly inspiring as a student not yet but very nearly graduated (about another year). Our own outgoing provost, Stan McKenzie, gave the big keynote address. Last year’s speaker was Bill Clinton, so he had some big shoes to fill, and to be honest I wasn’t really sure he was up to the task. To my surprise and great delight, he gave an entertaining and moving speech that far surpassed my expectations. I felt so happy when the whole thing was over and I got to stand outside while all the happy graduates exited the building, looking around for their families with big smiles on their faces.

I flew out of Rochester on Saturday afternoon, headed for JFK airport in New York City with butterflies in my stomach. I was to be leaving for ten days in Israel on the Birthright program through Hillel, an experience which some say is life changing! After having come back from the whole thing, I am not sure I would disagree with them. In a few more days, after I have finished percolating, I will sit down and do my very best to express what those ten days were like. It is going to be difficult to put a lot of the feelings and emotions into words, but I think I will manage.

Since I got back from Israel ten days ago, life has been just as jolly as ever. It was a little rough coming off the high of being on a bus with 40-50 amazing individuals in a place as wonderful as Israel for a week and a half, but I survived it. I definitely have a new respect for jet lag, which required almost an entire week to recover from.

Dan and I enjoyed the last few days before he graduated and headed back to the east coast for some engagements of his. We spent last weekend in San Francisco, which we basically love being in together. He tells me where to drive, and I drive, and just love all the sights. It’s fun. We explored some of the city’s parks, stayed in the Westin St. Francis (fancy!) Hotel in Union Square, and had really nice food and a fun evening together.

Work is good, and plenty busy as we prepare to bring more and more innovations to market! It is exciting and eye opening. The San Francisco Gay Pride Festival is next weekend and I am pretty excited to participate in the festivities, whatever they may be. This is my first gay pride festival experience and my very dear friend Marc is flying in from Philadelphia to experience it with me and some of our friends, so I am rather pumped for the whole thing. The whole festival is bound to be even more exciting since recently California made the very wise and sensible choice to support equal rights and legalize gay marriage, with the first ceremonies being performed earlier this week around the state. This past weekend was Stanford’s graduation, so I had the honor of meeting Dan’s family, who came in mostly from the east coast, and experiencing the whole affair with them. It was bittersweet, since the occasion was a joyous one but also full of heartfelt goodbyes. Anyway, life goes on, and so does this eye opening California summer of mine.

I apologize for being away so long, but as you know sometimes time just flies. I hope you enjoyed the photos and will keep your eyes open for my forthcoming Israel post and accompanying pictures!
posted by Michael at 12:50 AM

Tuesday, April 29, 2008
I'm Back!


Wow, has it really been three weeks since my last post? I am really sorry to have left you guys in the dark for so long, but time has really been flying for me out here. It’s hard to believe I landed in California almost two months ago! Well, brace yourself…this is going to be a long one!

I had been worried that when I got out here I would be bored on the weekdays, since I can only work so much and there is a lot of free time between 6PM and when I usually fall asleep. Oh, how wrong I was, and thankfully so. Between my Stanford friends and folks I’ve met in San Francisco, every day is full of surprises even after I’ve clocked out at work.




Three Thursdays ago, I drove down to Santa Cruz to see a band called 311 perform a show at the Catalyst night club. A few nights before the show, my friend Eric, with whom I went skiing a couple weeks ago, called me up and asked me to do a rather strange favor, or at least it seemed so at the time. He had met a girl recently in New Orleans, whose friend was flying up from southern California to go to the same concert we were going. Eric had never met this girl, nor had I, but she needed a ride from the airport to the show. I must admit I was somewhat apprehensive about picking up a random person from the airport that neither of us had ever met before and then riding with them all the way down to Santa Cruz. I once picked up some fellow concertgoer-hitchhikers after Bonnaroo in 2005, drove them nearly all the way to the Nashville airport, and thought practically nothing of it. Perhaps I am getting a little more uptight in my old age? Anyway, the afternoon of the concert, I left work, drove to the San Jose Airport, and picked up this random girl. The person who was waiting for me on the curb was the last person I expected to be meeting. As it turns out, the random girl is Julie, an accountant from Orange County, in her thirties, who would be attending her 137th 311 show to date. Wow. She scored some bonus points with me for having a leopard print suitcase in tow.

I tossed the luggage in the trunk and off we sped, down the windy route 17 that connects the somewhat bland and sprawling city of San Jose with the very interesting and eclectic oceanfront city of Santa Cruz. On the way, Julie and I exchanged some really great conversation. She is a very friendly, bubbly, and outgoing girl and I was delighted to be in her company. By the time we had arrived at our destination, I was really glad to have picked her up. We swung into a Taqueria by the boardwalk for a quick burrito. Julie, however, is of Mexican descent and decided to give my friend Eric and I a tour of Mexican food. By the time we were completely and utterly stuffed with food, the table was still covered with half full plates of deliciousness. I had a tummy full of carne asada and horchata, so I was quite happy. We moved onto the concert, which turned out to be really fun. I hadn’t seen 311 in concert since my high school days, but they are still as great a band as back then. This time however, I wasn’t at the Nissan Pavilion in Virginia, some 100 yards or more from the stage. The venue in Santa Cruz was narrow and deep and I managed to secure a nice place to stand very near the stage along one wall. It just so happened that I was right next to some gigantic ear drum-destroying speakers, but hey, I’m young and invincible, right? Towards the end of the concert, I was approached by a good looking latino boy with a hairstyle that can best be described, I believe, as a faux-hawk. As it turns out, he had secretly quizzed some of my friends standing nearby on my sexual orientation, and came over to introduce himself when he found out I was gay. I do not typically get approached by guys in public, and especially not in a place like this, so I was pretty surprised. The fella seemed friendly and not particularly sketchy, so we exchanged numbers and went on our merry ways. After the concert I took Julie to her hotel in Santa Clara and headed home to Sunnyvale.




On Saturday I met up with the boy from the show, who is named Marco. He is a pretty cool guy who has lived in San Jose all his life. He works as a special education assistant and has a very interesting personality. I met him in the early afternoon at his place and we drove across town to meet some of his friends. When we had all assembled, we piled into the car and headed down to a great park called Uvas Canyon. After an adventurous and windy ride up into the mountains that happened to take us through a Swedish summer getaway resort (seriously), we arrived at the park. While nothing about the park was terribly exciting, there were lots of trails up through the woods that provided us with some pretty decent photo opportunities, along with plenty of good uphill exercise. Some streams meandered along the paths, occasionally dropping into picturesque waterfalls that were gushing with cool water. I have to admit that I have no clue where this water comes from, since I have scarcely seen a drop of precipitation since I arrived in this state and I didn’t think these mountains were anywhere near tall enough to have winter snowfall. Something to ponder, I suppose. We followed a trail through the shady woods, up what I assume to be one of the sides of Uvas Canyon. We occasionally encountered other people, although probably less than a dozen in several hours of walking. The most memorable fellow hiker was probably a tiny Chinese woman, who I spotted wearing the infamous olive drab IDF t-shirt as she clung for dear life to some saplings while she descended the narrow trail we were on. I had to wonder where she got that shirt from, but I shrugged and moved along. We stopped for a quick breather when we had reached the top, and I took the opportunity to scarf down a couple protein bars and snap a few quick photos. While we were waiting, I tried one or two of Marco’s prunes, which turned out to be surprisingly delicious. I can’t believe I just said prunes were delicious!




We trotted back to the parking lot and had a leisurely drive back into San Jose. One of Marco’s students was participating in the Special Olympics at a middle school in Santa Clara, so we swung by to catch some of the action. I must admit that I never imagined when I woke up that morning that I would end up in a school gym watching a Special Olympics basketball game, but I just decided to try to enjoy the unusual situation I was in, smile, and sit quietly. By the way, those kids can really play ball.

After the game, we headed back to Marco’s place and I got my car. I cruised back to my house by way of Chipotle, for a quick Burrito Bol to go. I fell quickly into a food coma after stuffing myself with rice, beans, and barbacoa (mmmm!) and before I knew it I was very near sleep. As I drifted off, a part of me must have realized that I was about to doze off at 8pm on a Saturday night and that I only have so many Saturdays out here in California, because I somehow found the strength to drag myself out of bed and make a phone call.

The person I called is named Marcus. He is a friend of my friend Marc Weil from RIT. Marc gave me his number when he heard I was coming out here to the Bay Area so that I would have a contact in the San Francisco gay world. Marcus lives in the beautiful neighborhood of Noe Valley in San Francisco, right up the street from the Castro District (SF’s gayborhood). Marcus and I arranged to meet around 11 at a club in the SOMA district known as The Stud. I like this club because the music is pretty decent, it is not too full of old guys, and the Red Bull Vodkas are only 4 dollars (and I am cheap!). I am not going to go too in depth about the juicy details of my evening, mostly because you have either already heard them from me over the phone or simply do not care to, but I will just say that I met lots of friendly people and leave it at that. Not wanting particularly to drive back to Sunnyvale in the wee hours of the morning, Marcus extended an invitation to sleep on his couch, which I happily accepted. We went back to his place and ate Burger King while I quizzed him on what life is like as a gay man in his thirties living in San Francisco. After some interesting conversation, I curled up in the couch and passed out.




I awoke much too early, mostly because of the vast amount of light being shined into my eyes by the eastward facing windows in Marcus’ living room. I couldn’t be too upset because once I got up and looked out through the blinds, I was greeted with one of the best views of San Francisco I’ve seen to date. It’s pretty tough to see all the good stuff in San Fran all at once, mostly because of the topography of the land, but I could make out a lot of the good stuff, including the Transamerica Pyramid and the Bay Bridge, along with plenty of other recognizable landmarks. I was so inspired that I shot the panorama below so that you can see for yourself. I think you can click on it for a bigger view.




Being that it was Sunday, we went out for brunch and then wandered through the sunny Castro. While the really interesting part of the neighborhood is only 2 blocks long, there is still a lot for a young and relatively unexposed gay guy like myself to be surprised by. And I don’t mean all the sex shops and underwear stores. There’s nothing terribly astounding about those to me anymore. What got me most wide eyed was simply that I was for the first time in a noticeably predominantly gay place where it was so acceptable to be who I am. While I can’t say that the Castro instantly feels like home to me and I don’t imagine it ever fully will, I can say that a part of me feels pretty connected to it. I don’t expect many of you to be able to relate to this emotion, so I will choose not to ramble on too much about it. I will say that it’s really nice to know that there is a place in the world where rainbow flags adorn every lamp post and I can feel like I am not necessarily in the minority.




The rest of the afternoon was spent strolling through some fancy stores in Union Square, including the expansive (and expensive!) Banana Republic flagship store that I have been waiting practically my whole life to see. It is something else, that is for certain. I wasn’t feeling terribly inspired to shop though, so we walked around a while longer and then headed to happy hour back in the Castro. After having a vodka tonic or two and meeting some interesting characters, I decided to call it a night and head back to Sunnyvale.




The only notable thing about the week was the first installment of a seven week wine tasting class I am enrolled in at a wine shop in nearby Palo Alto. Through Dan, I met a Stanford girl whose father owns this wine shop, and it just so happened that they had recently decided to start giving wine classes in the evening. Although the class was intended only for Stanford seniors, I was extended an invitation to sign up, which I graciously accepted. While I have taken two wine classes before at RIT, I am always excited to take new ones, mostly because of the different perspective I can gain from different teachers. Also, it is nice to have the opportunity to keep trying new wines and to hone my wine related skills (whatever that means). As it turns out, there are two instructors for the class of twelve students, both of whom bring a wealth of knowledge and experience from the wine world into our class. I am glad to be back into a class of some sort, since I like to be around young people and to have the opportunity to learn, especially on the topic of wine.

When the weekend arrived, so did some exceptionally warm weather. I headed to Marcus’s place around 11 and after some pregaming, we did a little bar hopping in the Castro. I had a fabulous time sipping cocktails and running into a surprisingly large number of familiar faces, as we made our way through the packed clubs. San Francisco has a surprisingly early last call of around 1:30, so we were sitting down having late night munchies by around 2:15. With full stomachs, we headed back to Marcus’s and I crashed on the couch, feeling pretty satisfied with my evening. I remembered to close the blinds before I fell asleep this time.

I still awoke at a very early 10am, considering that I had passed out sometime after 4. Life in the fast lane I guess? My day mostly consisted of wandering around the Castro and lounging around in the 80 degree sun in Mission-Dolores Park, a few blocks away. Dan came into town in the late afternoon and met Marcus. We all hung out and talked for a while and then Dan and I headed across town to the charming neighborhood of Potrero Hill to check out a sushi place he was a fan of called Umi. Let’s just say that after experiencing their sashimi and maki, I am a fan too. This was among some of the best sushi I have ever had, and I have had my fair share. I won’t go into too much detail on the meal, mostly because I will start drooling, but I will say that the menu is very original and the ingredients were extremely fresh. To my parents: we should definitely eat here when you visit!

Saturday night concluded with a visit to The Stud, a club which is quickly becoming my favorite place to party in San Fran. In terms of a place to go and dance, it is really nothing compared to some of the places I have been in the east, but it certainly does the trick and there are plenty of friendly people to chat and dance with. When the place began to thin out, Dan and I decided to call it a night. We hopped in the Mazda and headed back to Stanford to sleep.

Sunday arrived with gorgeous weather, as do most days out here in Northern California. The weather really deserves a blog post all its own, so I really won’t get too into that, but suffice it to say that we get an epic amount of sunshine and an impressively small amount of rain. It keeps me happy. Dan and I, looking for adventure, hopped into the Mazda and headed up into the Santa Cruz mountains. This is the mountain range that I have the pleasure of gazing at every evening as I drive west on my way home from work. The range extends, to the best of my knowledge, along the Pacific for much of the distance from San Francisco down to Santa Cruz. We took a steep and windy road up from the Silicon Valley to the famous Skyline Boulevard, which straddles the mountains’ ridges, and headed north.

Much of the road is rather unexciting, winding through mountain forests of evergreen trees in a never ending series of undulating curves, through which I pilot the nimble Mazda with the greatest of joy. My smile must go on for miles. Occasionally, the road peaks its head out above the trees and one is rewarded with the dazzling sight of rolling hills and a beautiful blue ocean to the left, and suburbia and the San Francisco Bay to the right. These are the areas for which Skyline Boulevard is famous, when both sides of the mountain range can be viewed. Eventually the road ends and one is forced to head back east to suburbia or travel west to Half Moon Bay. We choose the westward route and soon realized that much of Northern California, given the beautiful weather, seemed to have had the same idea. Stuck in traffic, Dan and I simply put down the windows and appreciated the view. I must say, traffic jams are much more easily managed when they are experienced on gorgeous single lane mountain roads rather than on 12 lane interstate highways.

We finally reached the cause of the backup, a traffic light at Highway 1, and began our southward travel. I was not terribly excited for this leg of the trip, mostly because I had been down in this area 2 or 3 weeks prior with my coworker and fellow RIT co-op, Ben. Nevertheless, I thoroughly enjoyed the cruise down one of my favorite highways ever, with the blue and beautiful ocean to my right and the rising green hills to my left.




A few stops were made, mostly to satisfy my desire to photograph. I must have exposed almost an entire roll of Ektachrome in a single patch of California poppies, which to my eyes are easily some of the most beautiful flowers on this earth. Their ability to grow almost anywhere and in such great numbers only makes them more incredible to me. The bright orange colored blossoms are just so simple and easy to love that I am considering an attempt to grow a few in captivity. I haven’t really thought this idea through yet, but I am accepting ideas from those who know a little about wildflowers!



A few miles north of Santa Cruz, Dan and I stopped at a beach which requires a bit of effort to reach. We walked down a long path and over some railroad tracks, down a steep and treacherous path of loose dirt and gravel, and down onto the golden sand. It felt cool and damp underfoot, not unlike an Atlantic beach after an afternoon summer shower. In typical Northern California style, the beach was absolutely gorgeous but also absolutely freezing. Despite the fact that it was a balmy 88 degrees over the mountains in the valley from which we had come, we found ourselves somewhere in the mid 50s and practically shivering from the windy chill of ocean breezes blowing onshore. On the bright side, this particular beach featured a spectacular natural bridge feature that presumably began as a solid wall of sandy rock, which eventually gave into the endless pounding of countless unforgiving ocean waves. It now provided an interesting and unusual portal to the ocean on the other side.



I spent 10 or 15 minutes soaking up the natural beauty that surrounded me and snapping a few photographs when I spotted something inspiring. A time or two, I was nearly drenched in frigid salty wetness as I gazed through the viewfinder of my camera and failed to notice the impending wave action closing in on me. Thankfully I made it back to dry sand without getting soaked or losing my flip-flops to the swells of the unforgiving ocean.



Following our walk back up the treacherous path, we returned to the car and sped south into the somewhat bohemian town of Santa Cruz. We were starving and began searching for dinner. Both of us had Mexican on our minds, so after a long and arduous search, we found ourselves seated in a bustling Taqueria, gigantic burritos and plates full of nachos in front of us. I sipped on Horchata and scarfed down Carne Asada goodness as the sound of Spanish-speaking soccer announcers filled the room from televisions mounted to the walls. Only the employees of the establishment seemed to be paying any attention to it. Our stomachs began to get full as I watched the shadows from the parking meters on the sidewalk outside grow longer and longer until they disappeared completely. Satisfied, we hauled ourselves back into the car and headed north to Sunnyvale in the twilight.



Another full weekend behind me, I thought about the week ahead. But before I knew it, another 7 days had whizzed by my eyes and I was gazing backward at another weekend, which had been largely spent wandering around San Francisco with friends, since I unfortunately had nobody with whom to celebrate Passover.

On Wednesday of this past week I left work and headed to Stanford to attend a Passover Seder with a delightfully unorthodox twist. The Seder was called Coming Out…of Egypt. Based on traditional seder customs, it was attended primarily by LGBT jews and allies and featured a progressive Haggadah which examined the story of Passover in a Queer context. I thoroughly enjoyed the opportunity to celebrate Passover in a setting of my peers, which is something I haven’t really done before. The food wasn’t spectacular but the maztah balls were satisfying and I had to remind myself that I should be thankful, considering that I was yet again being treated to free dinner by Stanford. Such generous people! Wine class followed and, for the third Wednesday in a row, I sat and got practically drunk with a bunch of college kids and a wine shop owner while learning about the delicious viniferous beverage known as wine.

When Saturday rolled in, I woke up early and headed out to get an oil change for the Mazda. I have been running around so much that she was almost 1500 miles overdue for one. Shame on me. I found a place down the street that could do it right away, so I gave them the key and let them go about their business while I jogged back to my house. At that moment, I failed to recognize two things…one being just how far my house was from that gas station, and two being just how horribly out of shape I am. I must have jogged about a half mile or so before the only thought in my brain was of how much I hate running. I decided to walk for a little while to cool down. It was getting sunny and warm and I had begun to sweat. Jog a little further you wimp, I thought, so I began to trot a little faster down the sidewalk, stepping carefully around the puddles caused by poorly aimed garden sprinklers. I must have made it another quarter mile before I realized that I was still not even halfway from home, that I was tired and hot, and that my oil change would certainly be done if I just decided to turn around where I was and jog back. So I did. I paid the 20 bucks and cruised away with a pan full of fresh grease. Hooray for driving instead of walking.

I got some breakfast and a shower when I returned home, and soon Dan arrived. I packed a couple bags and off we went. To where, you ask? Why, into the great beyond of course! Actually, we had decided that a weekend away from the usual would be nice, so we planned a little 2 day trip down the coast. I had heard wonderful things about Highway 1 near Big Sur and Monterey, so we picked the skinniest roads on my California road atlas to get there, and went. We took the 101 for a hundred miles or so, exited and headed west across a wide open landscape of tiny green plants sprouting up in long straight rows on either side of the road.

On his iPod, Dan was playing us an episode of This American Life, an NPR radio show featuring various first-person stories and short fiction pieces. This particular episode centered on the intriguing life of one Gerald Springer, better known as Jerry Springer and for the smutty talk show which bears his name. As it turns out, the guy was once a successful and charismatic politician with a law degree from Northwestern, who served for several years on the Cincinnati city council and even for a year as mayor of the town. He failed to win the democratic party’s nomination for governor of Ohio in 1982, which led him out of politics and into journalism. By the mid 1980s he had earned himself a reputation as Cincinnati’s number one news anchor, where he stayed until 1991, when he headed off to what many might call the demise of his credibility and standing in society. You basically know the rest. For better or for worse, the guy has one heck of a colorful and surprising past.

As the show drew to an end, we began gaining elevation and eventually crossed into the Fort Hunter Liggett Military Reserve, a big grey blotch on the map through which Google had instructed us to drive. Touted on its website as the Army Reserve’s premier training center for the western United States, I wasn’t even sure if we were going to be allowed in (in this post-9/11 world, as they say). I was even more uncertain as we drove up to the entrance gate and saw an armed guy checking identification from the cars in front of us. The weapon was no M-16, but hey, a pistol can still fire bullets. When we finally made it up to the guy, I sheepishly told the guard that Google had directed us here and asked if we could pass through. He was friendly but firm and asked to see our driver’s licenses as well as proof of insurance and registration. Having showed him all our documents, he asked us where we were headed. This was just like trying to get into Canada, I thought, only without the funny accent and the Niagara Falls!

Eventually he let us go by and we proceeded into the restricted area. Within a mile, I could no longer see the gate we’d passed through and, aside from the occasional boot camp course or lone tank hanging around, I could barely even tell we were traveling through a military facility. We passed by miles of lonesome landscape, with many fields and forests and hills and mountains visible outside the windows around every turn. Before long, the road began to follow the increasing lumpiness of the terrain and I noticed a bit of a smile forming on my face. Dan started playing some show tunes on his iPod as I piloted the Mazda up the narrow road which was becoming increasingly steep and windy. At one point, we reached a gorgeous vista point and we both got out to get some air. I realized as I stood there that we’d probably seen 3 cars in the last half hour of driving. This was some seriously deserted territory!



It wasn’t long before the steep incline we were driving up turned into a decline we were rolling down, and I began downshifting to keep the brakes from overheating on the long downhill journey we were about to make. There is something I have come to find terribly inviting about maneuvering the Mazda up these curvy mountain roads, most of which are completely sans guardrail. For me, it has something to do with the opportunity to get away from all the traffic lights and stop signs, but it also has something to do with the feeling of excitement that comes from exploring completely new territory, as well as the great sense of wonder associated with having no idea what new and amazing sight will be waiting around the next sharp curve. And believe me, some of them really are sharp!



Well, this road was absolutely no exception. We began to catch small glimpses of the horizon when the trees were not so dense along the road, and it was obvious what the faint blue sight in the distance was. I don’t know why, when driving over these mountains, I always forget how much fun this part is. Eventually the road came completely out of the trees and began to hug the face of the bare mountainside, all aglow with shades of gold, orange, and lavender colored wildflowers.



We stopped at several points to run down the hills like excited children and gaze out at the rolling valley grasses and the blue ocean that lay out before us in the distance. I felt a little like Julie Andrews when she runs around in the highlands singing “The Hills are Alive” in The Sound of Music. Only I guess she was somewhere in Austria, and I was on the Pacific Coast. But you get my drift.



The views only got better the closer we came to the ocean. Before long, we were descending some switchbacks and quickly losing elevation. Finally, we found ourselves at a stop sign, staring across Highway One at the ocean. What a ride!



I turned right and we headed north in the direction of Big Sur and Monterey. We had decided to come down here on Saturday because the next day this whole road would be shut down for the Big Sur International Marathon. 4500 entrants, up at 3am, to run in what must be among the best 26.2 miles of highway to jog on anywhere. Awesome.



The road clings to a narrow path which juts out from the craggy mountainside, narrow enough in some places so as to allow barely two cars’ width, and so wide in other places that big parking areas are available where dozens of cars and motorcycles filled with tourists stop to get a better view of the blue ocean and the tall mountains rising out of it.



I could sit here and write more about how amazingly gorgeous the trip north to the Monterey Peninsula was, but it would be like trying to capture the beauty of the landscape in a photograph. It just wouldn’t do it justice. What I will say is that I implore you to take this trip at some point in your life, and to do it with somebody who will appreciate it as much as you will. It is not something you will end up regretting, that I promise.



We were losing light when we arrived in Carmel, a rather sleepy oceanfront town just south of Monterey. We had dinner reservations for 8:30 but that wasn’t for almost an hour and the sun was just about to set. So down we drove to the shoreline and onto the beach we went, cameras and the beloved dino bag filled with towels in tow.



We were lucky enough to find a stretch of sand all to ourselves and I laid out the biggest of the towels near the water’s edge. We both sat down and munched on the last of the strawberries we had bought earlier in the day. The sun began to set and Dan and I cuddled in the sand as beach flies buzzed annoyingly over our heads. As the sun went down and the sky began to glow a brilliant shade of reddish-pink, I snapped a few pictures. When it started to get really dark, we strolled back up to the car and went for dinner. Good food and wine was had, and after the meal we headed sleepily off to our hotel in Monterey for the night.



Sunday morning I awoke without an alarm for the first time in seven days, and lay entangled with Dan for an hour or so before we decided to make something of the day. Because of his commitments back at Stanford, we only had a few hours before we would have to head back home. After a shower, we drove down to the touristy area of Monterey known as Cannery Row. I sadly do not see what all the fuss is about. While I was not overtly bothered by the environment I found myself in, I was reminded a little of the tackiness of Fisherman’s Wharf in San Francisco or of the many boardwalks found in east-coast beach towns: many beachfront restaurants with probably much more hype and advertising than culinary value or good service, and 1001 t-shirt shops. Yippee. Dan had actually warned me that it really wasn’t all that wonderful, and I have to say that he was right. We had a decent lunch and then headed for less manmade terrain.



Point Lobos was described to me by my manager at work as one of the “crown jewels” of the California State Park System. I haven’t seen enough of them to really make my own judgments yet, but I was pleasantly surprised with my experience here. We entered, paid our nine dollars, and drove down a long unmarked road. Eventually we came out in a parking area with gorgeous views of the ocean on three sides. That lot was full so we drove further south to another area with a space or two free, and got out of the car. I tossed my camera bag over my shoulder just in case I needed to swap lenses, and followed Dan down onto the rocky seashore. The next hour or so was spent meandering along the trails, which are marked clearly so nobody goes traipsing into any of the myriad poison oak plants which grow there. I’ve never had the pleasure of experiencing poison oak before, but if it is anything like poison ivy, well…let’s just say I stayed on the trail. I snapped a few dozen of my signature cliché landscape photos and watched a bunch of sea lions lay around on the rocks, which occasionally got up to emit a few random barking noises before laying back down and playing dead. Seriously, when you see these things from afar, you can’t tell if they are completely alive or 2 weeks post mortem. They are that ugly!

Before too long, we had to return to the car and point ourselves back in the direction of Silicon Valley. I was happy to have made something of the weekend that did not involve being wasted in San Francisco like I had been for the past 2 or 3 weekends in a row. I believe wholeheartedly that drunken Fridays and Saturdays are extremely important elements of achieving a balance in one’s life, but I have found that so too are peaceful weekend getaways to the seashore. I am glad to be living in a place where I can easily have so much fun doing both! I look forward to sharing it with you someday soon!


posted by Michael at 10:51 PM

Thursday, April 3, 2008
Welcome to the Neighborhood

Good evening everybody! You know, it is the middle of the week, nothing terribly exciting is happening, but I wanted to go ahead and post here before another crazy weekend gets going, as it always does. Some people have been asking about where I live so I was thinking tonight I will give you all a little peek into my digs in Sunnyvale, as well as the folks I live with. All the images are clickable for enlargement!



About the town… Sunnyvale is one of the bigger cities in Silicon Valley, with a population of about 130,000. It is basically just a lot of urban sprawl. Never ending neighborhoods, tons of stores, and restaurants galore. I like having everything so close, but I miss having wide open spaces and I really get bored with all the traffic. Sunnyvale is home to such notable companies as Yahoo and AMD, among many others. Most of the other big names like Google and Apple are in the neighboring towns of Mountain View and Cupertino.


About the neighborhood… It is pretty typical suburban Northern California, with lots and lots of single-story houses on small lots with very green grass despite the fact that it never rains here, ever. Magic, I guess! We have nice sidewalks all over, which is good for the rare jog that I take. Within a mile or so, we have a Walgreens, plenty of high-priced gas stations, a Starbucks, two Trader Joes, three Safeways, the YMCA, a Chipotle (yes!), and tons of other stores. There is definitely no shortage of shopping to be done in Sunnyvale.


About the house… I really love this place. It is a single story structure, I guess some people would refer to it as a ranch style. It was built in the 60s, along with most of everything else around here, and the architectural style totally shows. I like it. We have a palm tree in the front yard! A real one! The house is a little on the tiny side, but we have a cozy living room where the cats usually hang out, along with a big enough kitchen that I rarely use, and that is about it. On one side of the house I have my own area with my bedroom and my bathroom. Marilyn has her own area in the back. More about her in a minute.
The inside of the house is cool, but the outside is my favorite. We have a really fabulous yard with lots of colorful flowers and plenty of sunshine. The flowers are kept pretty by the gardener dudes who come bright and early every Monday morning, waking me with their weed whackers and leaf blowers. I’m pretty sure the guys just stand outside my window with their leaf blowers blowing and weed whackers whacking, just to make sure I am not getting any more sleep than they are! I have been considering earplugs as an option, but I think hearing my alarm clock would become a little tricky then. And I’m not really sure if my employer would accept earplugs as an excuse for me showing up at 11:30, although I’ll never know until I try! The backyard has even more flowers, along with a little pond and a groovy patio with a picnic table. It is a nice place to chill out in the sun or to eat some lunch and drink a little wine.


About my room… My bedroom is a great place. I have decorated it pretty well I think, with some bold colors and plenty of IKEA accessories, as some of you will recognize in the photographs. The floors are hardwood, the walls are textured, and the ceilings are exposed beam and wood, and are wonderfully vaulted. Not your average boring bedroom! I have a nice big window but I really wish there were even more, since I am a big fan of natural light. The furnishings were conveniently here when I arrived, and include a basic desk, a book shelf, a small dresser, and a nice big bed! It is so soft! I threw down a few carpets and added some lighting to make things a little more warm, and I think they did the trick. I will ackowledge the fact that my walls are harshly bare, but worry not, I intend to create some original works to hang up and fill the empty spaces.
My bathroom is right next to the bedroom, and is pretty typical. The only thing of note is that anyone taller than about five feet has to duck to get under the showerhead! And being that I am measuring in at about 6’1” these days, it is a rather hilarious ordeal that I go through every morning just to get myself clean. I hope Home Depot sells something to rectify the problem before I develop neck problems or have some kind of slip and fall type accident!




About Marilyn… So my landlady is named Marilyn. She is a nice lady, probably somewhere between 60 and 70 years old (I am really bad at guessing age!). This has been her home since 1977. By trade, she is an artist, privately contracting various mural-painting jobs around the area for different people. She paints all types of things, from zoo animals and underwater scenes to clouds on the ceiling, mostly for children’s rooms. From the photos I’ve seen, she does excellent work. In her free time, she is an opinionated and well-informed lady who is passionate about all things political. It is a rare moment to see her in front of the TV and not be watching Wolf Blitzer or one of those other wind bags from the cable news networks. I occasionally sit down with her, at which point she talks my ear off for basically as long as I will remain seated, and often will continue once I get up. She mostly yaks about Obama (she loves him!), as well as the situation in Iraq and other random stuff in the news. I am kind of apathetic but we occasionally get good discussions going. Overall I like her because she is a positive and liberal lady who loves to have a good conversation but also knows how to let me live my own life. It’s a good arrangement.


About the cats, for you cat lovers… Ahh, yes, the feline members of the household. We have two cats, both Burmese, and they are cute and friendly. Now I will say that they are not the cutest and most friendly cats I have ever come across, but I am told that they are both nearly 15 years old, so I would say they are doing pretty good for their age. One of the cats is a boy, and his name is Valentine. He is a big black cat with a notch in his left ear that makes him identifiable from the girl, who’s named Gemma (pronounced with a J). She is a little smaller and slightly grayish compared to him, although the two are sometimes very difficult to tell apart. The boy has big black eyes and loves to be petted. He is all over me when I am in the kitchen, although he seems afraid of coming into my room. The girl, on the other hand, is not shy about coming right into my room and hopping into my bed, where she then proceeds to lick herself in some highly unladylike locations, right in full view. What manners. Then she hops down on the floor and wanders around my feet while she meows incessantly. And her meow is the most old lady sounding meow I have ever heard! Sometimes I have to kick her out just because it is so annoying. I have to say though, it is kinda nice having them around. I was never a cat person before this year, but I am definitely being converted, albeit slowly.


Well that is basically it. It’s a nice place to live, although the best part of being out here is really what I see and do once I’ve left my house and gotten out of the neighborhood. I hope to see some of you out here to visit soon, so you can experience it too!
posted by Michael at 12:32 AM

Tuesday, April 1, 2008
Weekend 4: Castro, Vegan Chinese, and Alpine Excitment!
Howdy folks. I really want to express my gratitude for all the praise and positive reviews I’ve received for the writing and photography in this blog over the last couple of weeks. While putting this together is something I really enjoy doing, it can also be rather time consuming as well, so I’m glad to hear that my efforts are appreciated and that it is being enjoyed by so many. I look forward to hearing your continued comments in the future!

It is Monday night and I am gazing back on another action-packed weekend out here in California. It seems that there is this never ending list of activities in which to participate, and I really look forward to having some of you out here to visit so that I may share some of them with you! From what I’ve seen, airfare from a lot of major cities on the east coast is quite reasonable considering that it’s round trip all the way across the country. If you are checking out fares, look for San Jose Airport (SJC) first and San Francisco Airport (SFO) second, since the latter appears to be pricier. Round-trip from JFK, Philly, and DC/Baltimore to San Jose are all around $220-260 depending on when you fly, and from Rochester the fares are around $320-$360. Come out for a 4 or 5-day weekend and I will be sure to show you a good time!

Friday night after work, I found myself cruising up the 101 at warp speed to pick up Dan from San Francisco airport. I was of course late, although in my defense his flight had landed a half an hour early (I know, when does that ever happen?) and I made it there only 20 minutes after his scheduled arrival. I thought that was pretty great considering my track record of, shall we say, occasional lackings in punctuality. We continued north from the airport and spent the evening experiencing the exciting nightlife that San Francisco and its infamous Castro district has to offer.




After 2 hours of dancing at the Café at Market and Castro, we headed down to the Mission to see what late-night Mexican options were available. To our great delight, there was not only a Taqueria open, bright yellow sign blazing and all, but there was a perfect parking space right on the street in front of the establishment. I am such a sucker for great spaces on the street. I always seem to get lucky and zip right into them. We wandered, ears still ringing, into the place, our noses filled instantly with the irresistible aromas of cilantro and carne asada. It was a slightly bilingual experience getting our burrito but before long we were chowing down on authentic Mexican deliciousness. Burritos are an amazing food to me, in that while there seems to be infinite variations of the creation, every single one manages to be overwhelmingly delicious. We sucked down the rest of our orchata and drove off into the night.

The next morning, we woke up and in short order, wanted food again. Not to worry, since Silicon Valley seems to have the whole restaurant thing covered. We chose to hit up the Whole Foods grocery store for some customizable lunch options. I got a mouth watering chicken breast sandwich on ciabatta, complete with pesto, fresh mozzarella, tomatoes, and spinach. Dan put together one of the most diverse salads I’ve ever seen (everything from olives to mango!) and we headed back to my place to fill our tummies on the picnic table in my sunny backyard. I grabbed a bottle of merlot from my room and we had ourselves a pretty lovely lunch if I do say so myself. 2 or 3 hours later, we dragged ourselves out of our food comas and drove over to Shoreline Park. This park is interesting in that it is built upon a retired landfill packed with decades of San Francisco’s trash. At some point in the last decade or so, the city of Mountain View decided to cover the whole thing up with dirt and build a golf course and a 50-acre salt water lake. I must say, it was a great idea, and unless you are really looking, you could never tell that this wasn’t just some bayside recreation area that had been around for decades.


We decided to rent a rowboat and paddle out into the lake for an hour to enjoy the sunny weather. It was pretty windy, but thankfully I was given the responsibility of sitting and looking pretty while Dan took care of paddling our boat upwind. He happened to have spent a few years as crew team captain in high school though, so he was up for the challenge. Bouncing around the lake, while pretty unremarkable, was nice simply for the opportunity to be out on the water breathing the fresh air, after being cooped up in cubicle-land all week. I took the downwind shift back towards the boathouse and we were heading back into town before long.


For dinner we ate in Mountain View at a vegan Chinese restaurant. Now those of you who know something about my eating habits are aware that I really have no interest in vegetarianism and that whole school of thought. While I certainly respect people’s choices as well as their reasons for making them, I enjoy a big steak or a beef burrito more than anything and at this point have no intentions of giving them up. However, this restaurant gets my wholehearted approval and here’s why. Basically, we all have no idea what is in regular Chinese food to begin with, so while the idea of vegan Chinese might sound a little scary to some, I am here to say that I couldn’t tell a bit of difference between the fake meat we were eating and the mystery meat served in the regular stuff. With that said, I almost feel safer chowing down on some fake bean curd chicken at this place than the sketchy but real meat found down the street at a dozen oriental restaurants. It didn’t hurt that the food was quite reasonably priced and that the staff were more than friendly to us the entire time.

Stomachs full yet again, we headed back to my house for a lazy evening of movies, red zinfandel, and earth hour. For those of you interested in wine, I cannot say enough good things about the 2004 Renwood Old Vine Zin from the great state of California. It is big and oaky but with plenty of fruit underneath to keep your entire tongue happy. It is not so dry that it can’t be enjoyed by itself, although I really like it best with a plate of Brie and Camembert! Out here it is only $15 a bottle and maybe a few bucks more in the east.



Now that my wine review is over, on to Sunday! I have just one word – Tahoe! I reluctantly rolled out of bed to the sound of my alarm at 5:15 AM, hours before the sun would be rising. I moved slowly as I always do when I am on 4 hours of sleep. I was also coming down with a little cold but I managed to convince myself that Tahoe was not something I’d be able to do any old time, so I better get myself going. In the unsatisfyingly dim light of my eco-friendly 7-watt compact fluorescent bulb, I pulled on my tight fitting ski thermals and then sweatpants and a sweatshirt. Socks and shoes followed and I was out the door before six.

I cruised across town to pick up my friend Eric who was riding up with me. Eric, who I know from my floor freshmen year, coincidentally is also on co-op from RIT in Sunnyvale and is working for AMD right down the street from my office. I found his apartment in the darkness that still enveloped the valley and we were on the freeway before too long. We made it out past Fremont before the sun began to rise and blind us as we headed east. I was really having a tough time staying awake, so we got off the highway a little past Sacramento for some breakfast and some Red Bull. We pulled into the Wendy’s parking lot, not at that concerned with the health risks of fast food consumption, and walked inside. Lucky for us, Wendy’s had recently created a breakfast menu, so I ordered myself some tasty looking French toast sticks and hash browns. I practically inhaled the food in front of me and we were out in no time at all. We stopped again for 10 gallons of gas and two 16 ounce cans of Red Bull (yes, they now make them double sized!) and we were doing 80 mph again in no time.

Route 50 is the preferred course for heading towards south Lake Tahoe, so that is the exit we took. Almost immediately, we began climbing in altitude, causing me to all but abandon fifth gear as a means of forward propulsion. We were alerted of our altitude by signs on the highway every 1000 miles, and I was amazed at how quickly they went by. We stopped only once to relieve ourselves quickly in the woods and by 10 we had made it to Sierra-At-Tahoe, our skiing destination, at roughly 7000 feet of elevation. Let me just comment that this was the first time the Mazda had been to such extreme altitudes and it appeared to be handling it like a champ. I was proud.



I put on the rest of my gear and headed into the rental area to see what I could get in the way of boots and skis. Unfortunately the place had already sold all of this year’s demo equipment so I was stuck with the regular rentals. Ugh. I try to stay positive in this blog for the most part, but the skiing was, in many ways, less than fabulous. I won’t complain about the conditions too much, because ice and slush are really just a part of life when skiing at relatively low altitudes in the end of March. And the skis weren’t horrific, but certainly seemed a lot softer and less adept at carving than my own, which are in a closet in Maryland right now. The lack of edging ability and overall grip on the mountain created a situation where I was doing more of a swiveling motion back and forth across the ice in an attempt to control my speedy descent. And whereas my boards are usually well waxed and practically self-accelerate on flat areas, these babies were stuck in glue. I couldn’t let myself spend the whole day complaining though, and in a pretty short time I had mostly adapted to the conditions and the gear, finding ways to enjoy myself, even though my snowboarding counterparts were totally smoking me down the mountain.



My optimism paid off and I really had a great time the rest of the afternoon. We skied all the way till 4, stopping only for the obligatory chili and cheese in a sourdough bread bowl for lunch. After packing our gear up and heading back to 50, we decided to take a little detour. Having driven four hours, we couldn’t just head back to the valley without actually seeing Lake Tahoe! We were treated to a very scenic ride down towards the water and before long, we reached the shore. I was excited to see the lake, since it is so huge among all those mountains. I was told that most of the volume of the lake is completely natural, with only about 10 feet of depth due to one single man-made dam. Pretty remarkable if you ask me.



It was cold so back in the car we went, and westward we drove. I had a wonderful time losing all that altitude, passing RV’s and slow moving vehicles every chance I got as I navigated the winding mountain road (take it easy my dear parents, there was a passing lane!). We reached the highway with ease and sat in what I now know was post-spring break traffic. Things eventually sped up and we were back in Sunnyvale by 9:30. I dropped Eric off and headed to my house, thinking only of a quick and carb-heavy meal and my very comfortable bed. I succeeded in finding both and before too long, I was passed out and dreaming of another action packed (and exhausting) weekend in the west!

posted by Michael at 12:14 AM

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